This year's folder has some girth to it.
Well, this year was rather busy. There are 13 submissions for Denials of Parenting Time that I filed against Evil Baby Mama. All but two were enforced.
There was an Order to Show Cause for Contempt for Evil Baby Mama for Parenting Time.
I had filed a Motion To Change Custody which was denied.
This is the year that Evil Baby Mama started to bring my girls into court to use against me. Evil Baby Mama started with our oldest daughter. Next year Evil Baby Mama brings our youngest into court.
I have a 2022 Text of Evil Baby Mama telling me that I needed to take our daughter to court with me. Of course, I refused. I didn’t think that our girls needed to be going to court. Evil Baby Mama thought otherwise.
Now, this is how two-faced this dumb bitch is…
A little further down the page from that text I have another text from Evil Baby Mama calling me a “selfish self-righteous prick that would rather put his kids through court”.
Yep, I’m serious. This dumb bitch talks out of both sides of her mouth.
I’m the one who tried to keep our daughter out of court. Evil Baby is the one who insisted that she go.
And go she did. Evil Baby Mama took our daughter into court to turn her against me. The worst that had happened was what I said to them. This was enough to turn my daughter against me?
My daughter was put on the stand. Evil Baby Mama’s attorney asked my daughter questions. I don’t remember any specific questions but they were all designed to knock me down.
While my daughter was on the stand I could have asked her questions. I could have questioned her and tried to turn her against her mother. I didn’t do that. I refused to question her. My daughter should not have been there.
There was the time that I didn’t go and get my girls which was my decision. I talk more about that in the 2021 Year and the 2021 Texts.
It didn’t happen as often as Evil Baby Mama claims. Most of the times was because Evil Baby Mama wouldn’t let me have my girls. Then Evil Baby Mama lies to our girls and twists it into me being the bad guy. This is to groom my girls to hate me.
Another time I had taken my girls back to their mother and told them to find a Dad that was good enough for them. I fucked up really bad. I know I did. Because of getting the shit kicked out of me so much over the years fighting for my girls my head was in the wrong spot for a minute. I severely regret it.
These fuck ups of mine probably could have been repaired if Evil Baby Mama was not sabotaging it. But none of this shit would have happened to begin with if Evil Baby Mama didn’t beat the shit out of me forcing me to fight for my girls their entire lives.
This is the worst that happened. There wasn’t any kind of abuse. I did not nor ever hit my girls or do anything inappropriate to them. I always protected them.
This did not justify bringing my daughter into court and turning her against me.
My daughter has said that I treat them (her) bad. This is crazy. Other than what I said to them I have always treated my girls very good. Look at my Daughter’s Video. Does that look like I treated my girls bad? Really?
This is what I think ran afoul? At one time my oldest daughter told me that I treated her unfairly, bad. I treated her different than my youngest. I treated my youngest better. Isn’t this a typical complaint with siblings? Unfortunately, in some cases that may be true. In most cases, probably not? In my case it’s wasn’t true. I treated my girls the same. I love them both exactly the same.
Well, instead of my daughter coming to me when she felt that way, she told Evil Baby Mama. And instead of Evil Baby Mama telling my daughter that maybe she was wrong, like any good, normal parent would do, Evil Baby Mama encouraged my daughter to feel that way and manipulated her into believing that I was treating her badly when I, in fact, was not. Evil Baby Mama did this to groom her to hate me.
Custody
Letter To Caseworker – January 3, 2022
I wrote complaining again that Evil Baby Mama would not bring me my daughter or give my daughters school information.
Evil Baby Mama liked to play games with school info. I’m pretty sure that Evil baby Mama had told me the info before this but I forgot. I only had my girls four days a month on the weekends. I really didn’t have to deal with school although I wish I would have been able to.
Having my girls so little it’s easy to forget things sometimes. I had asked Evil Baby Mama for our daughter’s school info. Probably again? Evil Baby Mama decided that she wanted to give me a hard time over it. Evil Baby Mama would avoid directly answering the question and would tell me that she had already told me and to go look at my past texts. I did try that and couldn’t find it. Evil Baby Mama kept playing this game to the point that I had to file a complaint.
Now, why? Why the fuck couldn’t this dumb bitch just simply say, “sure, it’s this and that”. Done. No problems. No arguments. No fighting.
Nope. Evil Baby Mama would pull crap like this and then blame me for getting pissed. I have anger issues she would say. True and Evil Baby Mama caused those anger issues. I’ve always had a temper but Evil Baby Mama could bring out the worst in me because she used my girls to do it.
Letter From Caseworker – January 5, 2022
A response to my complaint, or several complaints. Of course there always has to be a “procedure” so the court will never do anything about Evil Baby Mama’s bullshit.
Letters From Caseworker – January 7, 2022
In response to my letter above dated 1.3.2022. One to me and one to Evil Baby Mama.
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
Our case worker informing Evil Baby Mama that she has 14 days to give me the info I want. Denying me info. Evil Baby Mama already has complaints prior complaints filed for this and even a contempt charge yet she still does it.
I had to constantly fight just to know anything about my girls. Evil Baby Mama wouldn’t tell me anything and wouldn’t let me have my girls more so that I could just maybe know.
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Denial Of parenting time – January 13, 2022
from 11.25.21 to 11.25.21
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time from – January 13, 2022
from 12.3.21 to 1.5.21
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time – January 13, 2022
from 12.17.21 to 12.19.21
This one was not enforced. I did not get my time back.
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Denial of parenting – January 13, 2022
time from 12.22.21 to 12.25.21
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time – January 13, 2022
from 12.31.21 to 1.2.21
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time – January 13, 2022
from 12.31.21 to 1.2.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial Of Parenting Time – January 31, 2022
from 1.28.22 to 1.30.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial Of Parenting Time – February 17, 2022
from 2.11.22 to 2.13.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time – February 28, 2022
from 2.25.22 to 2.27.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
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Denial of parenting time – March 14, 2022
from 3.11.22 to 3.13.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back. Evil Baby Mama failed to respond to this one.
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Motion And Order To Show Cause For Contempt (Custody/Parenting time) – March 15, 2022
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Denial of parenting time – April 5, 2022
from 3.27.22 to 4.2.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back.
Letter To Caseworker – April 10, 2022
Telling how I missed picking up my girls at the court ordered time and why. Evil Baby Mama did let me pick them up later but only one.
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Denial of parenting time – April 11, 2022
from 4.8.22 to 4.10.22
This one was enforced. I got my time back. Evil Baby Mama did not respond to this one.
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Response To Motion And Order To Show Cause – April 19, 2022.
This is Evil Baby Mama’s response to the Motion And Order To Show Cause. A usual, it’s loaded with stupidity.
This dumb bitch is ignorant. Let’s check out her stupid letter. The blacked out name is my oldest daughter.
Page #1. Evil Baby Mama says that I picked up our daughter on 6-3 and then dropped her back off at Evil Baby Mama’s place on 6-4. This is true. Evil Baby Mama also says that I did this when no one was home or aware that I was going to do this. This is also true.
This is what actually happened. This is during the summer so I had my girls for a week at this time. During the summer I am very busy with work. I am self-employed. This particular day on 6-4, I was going to be working a late day.
My oldest daughter would have been 17 at this time. My daughter also had a job in a local fast food restaurant. On this day 6-4, my daughter had to work a evening shift. At a particular time I had to move in-between jobs. So, because I was working late and so I didn’t have to leave work I took my daughter to Evil Baby Mama’s place, where my daughter lived. My daughter said that she would be able to find a ride to work from there. Whether that ride was from Evil Baby Mama or a friend I am not sure?
Ok, now I will remind you, at this time my daughter was 17. My daughter lived at Evil Baby Mama’s place. That was her home. So, why the fuck does my daughter have to make her mother aware, or even ask permission, that she is going home, to where she lives? That simply does not make any sense to me.
She’s 17. Perfectly capable of being home alone and taking care of herself. She should have a key to the front door? So, what’s the fucking problem? The problem is that Evil Baby Mama just wants to control everything.
Page #2. This fucking bitch is insufferable. Again, I took my daughter to Evil Baby Mama’s. Again, also where my daughter lives. I dropped my daughter off at home, at Evil Baby Mama’s, on my way to work. I did this so that I would not have to leave work. My daughter said that she was able to find a ride to work. If it came down to her needing a ride I would have done it.
I don’t understand why she was knocking? She should have a key? There was a period of time that I gave my girls a key to my place and they didn’t even live with me. I just didn’t want them to ever have to worry about a place to go no matter where they were. They were a little young still but sometimes shit just happens.
As for my daughter crying? I have no idea? She wasn’t when I dropped her off that I noticed anyway. She was a 17 year old girl, anything is possible.
I did not tell Evil Baby Mama what was going on or if it was ok? Really? Why does my daughter need to ask permission to go home? That has me extremely discombobulated.
Why is it not ok to take my daughter’s to their home, where they live, when they need to? It’s only not ok so that Evil Baby Mama can create an issue then blame it on me. All that I was doing was making sure that my daughter could get to work. I somehow became the bad guy?
Page #3. Evil Baby Mama says that our daughter was at the door again at 7:30 in the morning and that she had stayed at a friend’s. She sure was and sure did. My daughter had stayed at a friend’s the night before. So, Instead of me leaving work in the morning to go pick my daughter up from her friends. Then have to leave work again to take my daughter to work. My daughter and I both decided that it would be easier if she went to Evil Baby Mama’s and she could get a ride from a friend. My daughter said she could get to work. I trusted her on that.
Evil Baby Mama had to “adjust” her day to get our daughter to work? So fucking what?! Evil Baby Mama didn’t have a job. She didn’t work. She didn’t do anything. Take your kid to work and stop bitching! If my daughter had no other way to work I would have left work and taken her with no questions asked and no bitching. But we chose the easier, more convenient way for both of us.
Evil Baby Mama had to “Recap”? Let me “Recap” that Evil Baby Mama is a fucking idiot!
Evil Baby Mama says that because our daughter was at her place “unexpectedly” for four days and not my place that those “are the not the actions of a person who is trying to build a relationship, nor are they the actions of a person prepared to take on more responsibility”.
Fucking really? All I am doing is making sure my daughter can get to work. If that means taking her to Evil Baby Mama’s then that’s what it is. I don’t have an issue with it because I’ve never tried to keep my girls from Evil Baby Mama. I don’t feel as though I should have to contact Evil Baby Mama and give her “heads up” or ask “permission” for our 17 year old daughter to go home. It just doesn’t make sense to me. My girls could show up on my doorstep anytime day or night and it would be ok. I would never have an issue with it. I would never bitch about it.
Evil Baby Mama had an issue with it though. Evil Baby Mama created an issue when there was no issue to begin with. Evil Baby Mama did this to create problems for me then to twist it into me being the bad guy.
Parenting Time Determination – April 20, 2022
This one was not enforced.
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Order After Hearing On Alleged Custody/Parenting Time Violation – April 29, 2022
Evil Baby Mama is in contempt for violation of the parenting time order. This is Evil Baby Mama's 2nd contempt.
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Formal Hearing Regarding The Father’s Custody Motion – May 5, 2022
A formal hearing regarding my custody motion with the court Referee.
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Motion Regarding Custody – May 19, 2022
I tried to change custody to get just equal time. That’s it. Nothing more, nothing Less. Just equal time. Of course, Evil Baby Mama and the court both told me no.
The texts, #8, is from my oldest daughter. She says that her mom is not brainwashing her yet she believes all of Evil Baby Mama’s bullshit. I get in more detail with these texts in my post To My Girls.
Text #9, Evil Baby Mama claims that I am lying and she brainwashes and convinces our daughter that I am then convinces her to talk to an attorney and turn against me. For really, no reason. This is Evil Baby Mama grooming our girls to hate me.
I need to decide to change me? Naw, Evil Baby Mama needed to decide to stop being a fucking bitch! I do place blame on Evil Baby Mama. All of this is her fault. I didn’t ask to fight for my kids. I’m not the one who forced me to do that. Evil Baby Mama is. Evil Baby Mama forced me to fight for my kids. This IS her fault.
Evil Baby Mama has “every text saved and locked” Ooooo! Scary! Well, sunshine, I have an entire website showing how I am not lying! Beat that one, bitch!
Evil Baby Mama says that our daughter has a lawyer and that she is “old enough to go in and tell them herself that you are lying about EVERYTHING”.
I’m lying? I have been saying the exact same thing for twenty years. Evil Baby Mama kept my girls from me. Evil Baby Mama kept me shut out of their lives. Evil Baby Mama forced me to fight for them. I’ve been saying this exact same thing for twenty years. Never anything different. My story has never changed. However, with Evil Baby Mama, every time I turned around and the sun came up the bitch had something new to accuse me of.
Who’s story stays consistent? The truth.
Who’s story changes? A liar.
Evil Baby Mama is the one lying and causing the trouble and she convinces our daughter to talk to an attorney to go against me? That is straight up pure evil. Evil Baby Mama also had to “spruce” it up a bit and call the cops on me for it.
I was just trying to make sure my daughter can get to work and somehow I become the bad guy and get the cops called on me?
I can’t win with anything. I could do absolutely everything 100% right and it would still be wrong.
In my Motion in Document #11, I specifically ask for only equal time. Not full time. Not part time. Equal time. Also specifying that I have no desire to take my girls from their mother. What’s wrong with equal time? What’s so bad about that?
Text #12 is about my daughter’s broken glasses. I talk more about that in the post Evil Baby Mama Texts.
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Plaintiff’s Answer to Defendant’s Motion Regarding Custody – June 10, 2022
This is Evil Baby Mama’s response to my Motion Regarding Custody.
In Document #2, Evil Baby Mama “denies that a proper cause or change is circumstance exists to warrant a change in custody”.
I need a “proper cause” or a “change in circumstance” to see my own kids more? Simply being “Dad” is not enough.
The Document goes on to say “Defendant-Father has attempted to paint Plaintiff-Mother as constantly denying parenting time which is not true”.
Um????? Not true? Did they miss something? Perhaps the 12 Denials of Parenting Time that I have filed this year? How about for the last 18 years of only being allowed to see my girls only 4 days a month?
Evil Baby Mama has been denying me my girls their entire lives. That is why I fight with her. If she wouldn’t have done that we would not have fought, at least not as much. If Evil Baby Mama did not keep my girls from me this website would not exist.
Document #3 says that “Defendant-Father sent a text to Plaintiff-Mother stating that “I am not coming to get the girls anymore”. I did say this. I know. It’s fucked up. I talk about it more in Evil Baby Mama ‘s 2021 Texts.
The Document says that I showed up at the child exchange location wanting my girls. I did. I fucked up really bad. I wanted my girls.
The Document says “Defendant-Father has gone so far as to specifically tell the children that he is no longer their dad and that the children should find a new dad”.
I absolutely do not remember ever telling my girls that “I am not their Dad”. My oldest daughter has said that I have said this. I’m not saying my daughter is lying. I think she may have misheard me or Evil Baby Mama somehow planted that idea in her head?
I did tell them to find a Dad that is good enough for them. This has happened a couple times. I know. I really do feel like a piece of shit for it. No need to remind me.
The Document says “Defendant-Father since the entry of the initial custody order will disappear for long stretches of time, refusing to even acknowledge that he is the father of the minor children”.
Since the “initial custody order”? That would mean the first one in 2005. That would be 18 years at this point. If I have been doing this for the last 18 years why did it take Evil Baby Mama 18 years to complain about it? Because Evil Baby Mama is lying. All the complaints for the last 18 years are mostly on Evil Baby Mama. Me fighting to try and see my girls more. This is the kind of bullshit that Evil Baby Mama tells my girls to groom them to hate me.
I did go a stretch that I didn’t pick up my girls because of me. That had only happen in the last couple years at this point. Not for 18 years. All the times before that that I did not get my girls it’s because Evil Baby Mama would not let me.
There was a full summer that I did not get our girls because of me. It was Summer 2008. At this time I did not have a vehicle or a driver’s license. I was living with my sister and dependant on rides from her. She usually took me every other weekend to pick up my girls and take them back. This summer my sister could not do it as her work schedule had changed.
Because of the Personal Protection Order Evil Baby Mama had on me I could not tell Evil Baby Mama this. I had to go through Evil Baby Mama’s sister to tell her that I was not able to get our girls. Evil Baby Mama’s sister did tell her this.
Yes, I’m guilty myself of not getting my girls on my own accord, however, it’s mostly been because of Evil Baby Mama.
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Order Regarding Parenting Time – June 16, 2022
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Transcript of a hearing – September 1, 2022
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Plaintiff’s Answer To Defendant’s Objection to Referee’s Recommended Order – September 2, 2022
This is Baby mama’s answer to my Objection to Referee’s Recommended Order.
Of course, Evil Baby Mama disagrees with me. Me having my girls only 93 days a year compared to Evil Baby Mama’s 272 days is totally fair, according to Evil Baby Mama.
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Objection To Referee’s Recommended Order – September 12, 2022
This is my objection to the Referee’s recommended order. I basically said that I am Dad and having my girls only 93 days a year wasn’t fair. The court didn’t listen. The court didn’t care.
All I have ever asked for was just equal time. That’s it. Just equal time. But I somehow became the bad guy.
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Order After Hearing On Objection To Referee's Recommended Order – September 12, 2022
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Letter To Caseworker – December 27, 2022
This is another complaint letter about Evil Baby Mama not bringing me my girls, again.
Support
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Various Support Documents