January – March
This text I ask Evil Baby Mama why there always has to be a fight. I even tell her why we fight because she forces me to fight for my girls. Evil Baby Mama can’t seem to understand that?
Naw! Evil Baby Mama understands. She knows exactly what she is doing.
Then Evil Baby Mama’s response is that my “behavior as a father is unacceptable”. Well, it’s Evil Baby Mama that’s causing my fucking behavior.
I tell her again that her making me fight for my girls is the problem. She knows it is. She doesn’t care. Just as long as she can twist something into me being the bad guy to be able to manipulate my girls to hate me.
Girls, your mother lied to you!
June – July – August – September – October
This text isn’t very good. I had told Evil Baby Mama that I wasn’t coming to get our girls anymore. I do not know why I said that? I was having a very bad day. Actually, just about every day prior to that was bad, at least for a couple weeks or so. Probably longer?
For the last few weekends prior to that it seemed like my girls were just drifting farther and farther from me. It seemed like they didn’t really want do much of anything with me. It seemed like they really didn’t want to talk to me. It seemed like they didn’t even want to be there.
This hurt. Really bad. This just piled on top of everything else and made things worse for me. I guess my reaction when someone does not want to be around me or talk to me is to distance myself from them. I did that with my girls. I didn’t mean to. I regret it.
Girls, I am truly sorry!
All this fighting for my girls over the years has completely destroyed me. It has beaten the fuck out of me. It has caused so much damage that I think that I am beyond repair?
After awhile, everything builds up, then sometimes I break. I’m only human. I can only take so much.
I just wanted to be Dad.
Evil Baby Mama says that she has “never once kept them from me”.
Evil Baby Mama is full of shit. Evil Baby Mama has been keeping my girls from me their entire lives.
If she hasn’t, then what the fuck is all this shit?
Why are there 12 submissions for Denial of Parenting Time?
Why in 2009 when I tried to get more time with my girls, just equal time, was I told no?
Why does Evil Baby Mama have 3 Contempt Charges, two for Denial of Parenting Time?
Why does this website even exist?
Because the fucking bitch kept my girls from me! That’s why there were problems. That’s why I fought with Evil Baby Mama. That’s why I was “mean” to her.
Evil Baby Mama tells me that I walked out of my girls lives and convinced my girls to believe the same. I mean, I can kind of see how what I did and said might suggest that, to my girls, but I didn’t. I should have handled things differently. I didn’t. I fucked up.
Evil Baby Mama asks if have tried to talk to my girls. I have tried. There have been times when I did try and talk to them. Not straight getting into the issues but basically starting with some small talk and they always acted like they didn’t want to talk to me. This made it harder to try and talk about anything else.
And what exactly am I supposed to tell them? What my problems are? Why my behavior is like it is? Why I’m angry and upset all the time? Is this what I am supposed to tell them? How? I can answer all these problems in just three words. Evil Baby Mama.
I’m not supposed to tell my girls this. I’m not supposed to talk about their mother. But their mother is my problem. There is nothing else. My issues are all Evil Baby Mama. Period! I can’t just make something up to tell them.
Evil Baby Mama kept my girls from me. Evil Baby Mama kept me shut out of their lives. Evil Baby Mama forced me to fight for my girls. Evil Baby Mama has lied to our girls and brainwashed them into believing that I’m the bad guy. Evil Baby Mama has been grooming our girls to hate me their entire lives.
I’m not lying or making shit up. It’s all here. It’s all tangible and not pulled from my ass. If this were not true. This website would not exist. The content just would not be there.
These are my problems. This is why my behavior is like it is. This is why I am angry and upset all the time.
I didn’t do this. Evil Baby Mama did.
November
Here, again, Evil Baby Mama is threatening me with a lawyer and threatening with a lawyer for my oldest daughter.
Evil Baby Mama did take our daughter into court to use against me. Why? For no real reason. Just to turn her against me.
I didn’t go to pick up my girls for a bit. I had taken my girls back and told them to find a Dad that’s good enough for them. I talk about that here. This was really bad. It wasn’t good for sure. But this was the worst that had happened. Does this justify taking my daughter into court to use against me? I don’t think so?
My daughter has said that I treat them (her) bad. This is crazy. Other than what I said to them I have always treated my girls very good. Look at my Daughter’s Video. Does that look like I treated my girls bad?
This is what I think ran afoul? At one time my oldest daughter told me that I treated her unfairly, bad. I treated her different than my youngest. I treated my youngest better. Isn’t this a typical complaint with siblings? Unfortunately, in some cases that may be true. In most cases, probably not? In my case it’s wasn’t true. I treated my girls the same. I love them both exactly the same.
Well, instead of my daughter coming to me when she felt that way, she told Evil Baby Mama. And instead of Evil Baby Mama telling my daughter that maybe she was wrong, like any good, normal parent would do, Evil Baby Mama encouraged my daughter to feel that way and manipulated her into believing that I was treating her badly when I, in fact, was not. Evil Baby Mama did this to groom her to hate me.
Of course I wouldn’t be able to prove this but I’m pretty sure I’m right. I know how Evil Baby Mama operates.
October – November – December
Here, Evil Baby Mama says that I needed to discuss my behavior with my girls. How? I can’t? I’ve tried. It didn’t go over very well.
My behavior is caused from Evil Baby Mama’s bullshit. I can’t tell my girls that because not “supposed to talk bad about the other parent”.
I have told my girls that. What else am I supposed to tell them? I can’t make anything up. I wish I could. I wish there was something else that I could tell them but there just isn’t. I didn’t really “talk bad” about Evil Baby Mama. I just told the truth. If it sounded bad that’s on Evil Baby Mama.
Evil Baby Mama tells me that I am lying. I think this website shows who the liar is? It’s not me. Also, Evil Baby Mama tells me that our oldest daughter is talking to a lawyer and can tell them that I am lying. I wasn’t lying about anything.
This is Evil Baby Mama turning my girls against me. This is Evil Baby Mama manipulating my girls to hate me.
But, of course, Evil Baby Mama claims that I was manipulating her and our girls. Evil Baby Mama says that our girls know that I am lying. But I wasn’t lying. It’s all here. There is no lie.
Evil Baby Mama claims that I tried to force our girls to hate her and when they don’t I throw a fit a decide to not be Dad. That claim is really out there in left field. It’s not true at all. Whether the truth was bad or good, I always told them the truth. I have never lied to my girls. Evil Baby Mama has. I have never tried to “make” my girls, “force” them, or in any other way, to hate Evil Baby Mama. Evil Baby Mama is full of shit. This is what Evil Baby Mama does to me.
Then Evil Baby Mama goes son to tell me how close she is with our girls and the good relationship Evil Baby Mama has formed with our girls. Yup, Evil Baby Mama did that. That’s probably fairly easy to do when you have 272 days a year to do it. I, on the other hand, with only 93 days a year and almost a constant fight just to have those, was not able to build a relationship with my girls. Evil Baby Mama made that impossible.
And, yup, there were a few times I “went off” about Evil Baby Mama to my girls. I did try to stay as tactful as I could but sometimes it was difficult. None of this would have ever happened if my girls weren’t kept from me. If I wasn’t shut out of their lives. If I wasn’t forced to fight for them. Evil Baby Mama did that. Not me. I’m not lying. It’s all here.
Evil Baby Mama comments about the stuff I buy my girls that it is “suck up” gifts. You see. I can’t do a fucking thing right no matter what it is. Even buying things for my girls I’m the bad guy.
I spoiled my girls their whole life. I liked spending my money on them. I was always getting them something. Not to “buy” them but because I love them.
My youngest really likes Harry Potter. I was getting her all kinds of stuff Harry Potter. She has a huge collection of Harry Potter stuff. She liked those Trolls also. From the Troll movies. I collected those for her. Anytime I went into the store and seen something Troll I would usually buy it. My daughter has small Trolls. Medium Trolls and large Trolls. In total about 42 of them. She has a bunch of Minions also. Small Minions. Medium Minions and large Minions. Probably about 25 or 30? I went over the top sometimes for my girls.
My youngest was in cheer competitions. I was at one of her cheer meets one night and I noticed that one of the teams had a little stuffed animal that matched their school mascot. They could have probably fit it in their pocket but it was cool. Then, Daddy got an idea! My daughter’s school mascot is an eagle. Why does my daughter’s team not have their school mascot? I now had a mission! To find an eagle! Now, do you really think that Daddy is going to be satisfied with a little stuffed eagle they can fit in their pocket? No, sir! GO BIG OR GO HOME!
Well, I went home and scoured the internet. I landed myself in EBay and found an eagle. And this was not just a little pocket eagle. I found a big one! Probably about life size because eagles are fucking big, man! Check it out.
My oldest was into The Walking Dead for awhile. I was getting her whatever I could find with The Walking Dead. Didn’t find as much as the Trolls. She was into Alf also. Remember him? My daughter really liked him. I watched Alf all the time when I was a kid.
Well, one day I decided that I wanted to get her a stuffed Alf for Christmas. Of course, I was not going to be satisfied with just a regular little Alf that you could go buy off a Walmart shelf. Well, back then, probably Kmart? Once again, I went home and scoured the internet. Once again, I ended up on EBay and I found Alf. This one was exactly what I was looking for. He stood almost 3 feet tall, about life size. It was hand made by a lady in Spain. It was made to order. Alf cost me about $300. Check him out.
This is the kind of things that I always did for my girls if I was able to. I wasn’t buying them. I spoiled them because I love them.
And again, Evil Baby Mama is telling me that our oldest daughter is talking with a lawyer so that she can go into court against me. This is what Evil Baby Mama convinced her to do.
And yet again, I try asking Evil Baby Mama about our oldest daughter’s school and she just could not give me a straight answer. Evil Baby Mama just plays games.
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December – January 2022
Here Evil Baby Mama is arguing with me again about child exchange location. Child exchange location was the Clare Police Station. This was determined when I lived elsewhere. During this time, Evil Baby Mama lived west of Clare and I lived just a little further west of Evil Baby Mama.
This means that in order for me to go to Clare to the police station I would literally drive right by Evil Baby Mama’s place where I could have just stopped, let my girls get out of my truck then be on my way, no problems. This would have saved Evil Baby Mama a trip and gas.
Nope. This kind of logic does not exist for Evil Baby Mama. It always has to be the police station because Evil Baby Mama claims that I always cause problems. That is not true. If Evil Baby Mama didn’t keep my girls from me and forced me to fight for them there would have not been any problems.
One of the nights, December 5, there was a snowstorm. There is a screenshot of the weather on December 5, 2021. A winter storm. Evil Baby Mama wanted me to drive in this. I mean, I can drive pretty good in the snow. I have 4x4. It helps if you don’t drive stupid. But I still didn’t want to drive in it.
Evil Baby Mama would have rather me risk driving in it with our daughter just so Evil Baby Mama can keep my daughter from me.
December
More stupid arguing about picking up my youngest daughter. Everything always has to be a fight.
Stop keep my girls from me and there wouldn’t be any fighting. Duh!
December
More stupid arguing with Evil Baby Mama. Arguing. Always. Evil Baby Mama can’t go without it.
December – January 2022
Continued stupid arguing. There wouldn’t be any arguing if Evil Baby Mama didn’t keep my girls from me.