Not much thicker this year.
Evil Baby Mama fought with me again over the Summer Schedule. Just like she did in 2008, 2010, 2013 and 2017.
This year, Evil Baby Mama’s earns her first contempt charge. Evil Baby Mama ended up with a total of 3 Contempt Charges.
Evil Baby Mama once again refused to give me information about our girls. I had already complained about this and she was told to comply, however, she decided to not do that.
So, I had to file another complaint. Evil Baby Mama had a show cause hearing. She was found guilty and given a contempt charge. Of course, ultimately, the contempt charges didn’t mean shit. The judge was Evil Baby Mama's attorney for the same case before she became judge so Evil Baby Mama was protected.
Evil Baby Mama told our girls that she didn’t shut me out of their lives. This shit right here. Yea, this is Evil Baby Mama shutting me out of their lives.
Girls, your mother lied to you!
A little bit more with support this year.
Custody
Letter From Caseworker – March 7, 2019
Response From Court To A Complaint From Me About Summer Parenting Time
I don’t remember exactly what it is about? I can’t find the letter that I sent. From this, though, I assume that it’s about the “ban” that Evil Baby Mama had on me at our girls’ school.
Yea, Evil Baby Mama stopped me from going to our girls’ school and picking them up.
This is what happened…
I am a self-employed painter. I do mostly residential. Well, I happened to come across a job where I was painting the exteriors of some buildings on the football field of my girls’ school. This would have been the summer before this summer. So the summer of 2018.
One warm, sunny Wednesday afternoon I am out in the football field area semi-happily painting on some buildings, their colors are purple and gold, it was looking pretty sweet, I might add. I stop, take a look at my clock. It was probably around 2:24 pm. I thought to myself, hey, my girls get out of school at 3 pm and I’m just around the corner. I’ll go pick them up and take them home and will be able to spend a couple minutes with them. A literal minute. Evil Baby Mama only lives a few blocks from the school. I’ve never picked them up from school before or took them to school before because Evil Baby Mama wouldn’t let me.
This shouldn’t have been a problem, right? I was hoping there would be no issue. But… my gut feeling was that Evil Baby Mama would have some kind of problem with it. My gut was correct. I didn’t care though. I just wanted to see my girls.
I stopped painting (working). I went to the school and found my girls. I only picked up one of my girls. The other one had to stay after. She wasn’t in trouble. I don’t remember the reason? I took my daughter straight home to Evil Baby Mama’s. We didn’t stop anywhere. We didn’t do any fucking around. It was straight home. I had her home literally within a couple of minutes of me picking her up from school. She was home by probably about 3:10 pm.
The next day, Thursday, I hadn’t heard anything from Evil Baby Mama about picking them up. I kind of expected to. I was at the football field again so I thought that I would go pick up my girls again. I did. A little bit before 3 pm I went to the school and found my girls a couple minutes after 3 pm. I told them both to get in my truck and I would give them a ride home. They did. But this time they had their little brother with them. That’s ok. A little guy at the time. Probably around six or seven at the time? He is not mine. A couple years or so younger than my girls.
I told my girls’ little brother to get in also and I would give him a ride too. I was not a total stranger to him. He knew that I am his sister’s dad. I am picking up my girls and I am not going to make a seven year old little boy walk home by himself. I gave all three of them a ride home. Again, I had them all home swiftly. No pit stops. No fucking around. Straight home. They were all home safe and sound by 3:10pm. Should be good, huh? No problem?
Friday comes next. Again, I was working at the football field and 2:45 pm comes tapping on my shoulder. I decide again to go pick up my girls from school and take them home. I thought that I would be good? All that I was doing was picking up my girls from school and taking them straight home, just to spend a couple minutes with them. I wasn’t hurting anything. I definitely wasn’t hurting them. They walked home anyway. Evil Baby Mama wasn’t trying to pick them up. I wasn’t interfering in anything.
On Friday, Evil Baby Mama had decided to send her older daughter to come and pick up my girls from school. This was done simply so that I could not.
That following Monday I got a call from the school. They banned me from picking up my girls. They told me that I was no longer allowed to pick up my girls from school. If I did, I could be arrested. I even asked if I could come, park my vehicle and walk home with them, at least part way. Again, I was told no and that if I did I could be arrested. Arrested? For simply seeing my girls. This is what Evil Baby Mama did to me.
Imagine. A part of your kids’ childhood. School. Being there. Being able to take them there and pick them up. Watching them grow. Watching them make friends and grow with them. Being a part of their childhood. I couldn’t do that. Evil Baby Mama took that from me.
There was no reason for Evil Baby Mama to do this. I did nothing wrong. I was just trying to see my girls. This simply was Evil Baby Mama keeping me shut out of my girl’s lives. Limiting my involvement as much as she could.
Evil Baby Mama did this simply just to be a bitch and to make me look like the bad guy to turn my girls against me. Looking at the letter from our case worker, our caseworker specifically says, “You cannot pick them up from school when it is not your parenting time”. This means that was Evil Baby Mama’s bitch. I get my girls on weekends. It’s never my parenting time when they are in school. I was picking them up and it was not my “parenting time”. This also means that Evil Baby Mama probably told our girls the same thing that I was not following the court order and twisting it into me being the bay guy. Who gives a fuck if I wasn’t following the order? Why should that really matter? It only matters to someone that is trying to keep your kids from you.
And people wonder why I am so pissed?
Evil Baby Mama also bitched because I gave her son a ride home. His dad didn’t give a shit. I guess I should have just let him walk? A little seven year old walk? I couldn’t do that. Then Evil Baby Mama convinces our girls that I didn’t try to see them. Evil Baby Mama didn’t tell our girls how many times she stopped me from seeing them. If I do try to see them, even just for a minute, like here, Evil Baby Mama stops me. Evil Baby Mama took my girls’ childhood from me. That’s why I’m so fucking pissed! Evil Baby Mama has been grooming our girls their whole lives to hate me.
Girls, your mother lied to you!
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Motion And Order To Show Cause For Contempt (Custody/Parenting Time) – April 30, 2019
This is for Evil Baby Mama.
This is her first Show Cause For Contempt. She has two more coming.
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Referee Findings and Recommendation For Order After Hearing On alleged Custody/Parenting Time Violation – May 22, 2019
Evil Baby Mama was in contempt for violation of custody order. Again, first of three.
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Various Support Documents