For a few years, Grandma, or Grandma Dawn, watched my girls for me when I had them while I was working during the summers mostly when I had my girls for a week at a time. I didn’t “pay” Grandma Dawn to “babysit” or basically hang out with her own granddaughters, that she wanted to do. However, I did give Grandma Dawn money to help feed my girls and do things with them.
Grandma Dawn was absolutely wonderful to my girls. Grandma Dawn spoiled my girls like crazy and loved them very, very much. Grandma Dawn was even paying their phone bills for a couple years or so until I was able to take it over. Thank you, Grandma Dawn.
And even Grandma Dawn’s husband, Grandpa Jim, was wonderful to my girls. He was only Grandpa by marriage but still was amazing to my girls. They both treated my girls very well. Thank you, Grandpa Jim.
When my girls were younger they always wanted to go to Grandma Dawn’s. My girls spent a lot of time with Grandma Dawn during the summers when I had them. My girls loved going to Grandma’s.
Now, like me, my girls won’t talk to Grandma Dawn. I do not know why? I do not know what happened? The last that my youngest told me was that Grandma Dawn causes trouble. I do not believe that. Sure, there were probably some issues, but I truly believe that it wasn’t Grandma Dawn that caused those issues. I have no doubt that Evil Baby Mama caused the problems and twisted it into Grandma Dawn being the bad guy. Just like Evil Baby Mama did with me.
Also, like me, Grandma Dawn has not lied. I have text from Grandma Dawn commenting about how Evil Baby Mama did not include me in my girls’ lives. Grandma Dawn mentions Evil Baby Mama not informing me of things like the daddy/daughter dances. Keeping me out of it. Keeping me shut out of my girl’s lives.
Grandma Dawn did not lie. I also have a picture of my girls at one of their daddy/daughter dances and I am not with them. My girls are with Grandpa Jim and Evil Baby Mama’s now ex-husband. Evil Baby Mama was trying to replace me with someone she is not even with anymore.
The text of Grandma Dawn commenting about the daddy/daughter dance is on this page. I also have that text and the daddy/daughter dance picture in the post To My Girls. I talk more about it there.
If Grandma Dawn told the truth about the daddy/daughter dances, why would she lie about anything else? That doesn’t make any sense to me?
Here are some texts between me and Grandma Dawn about Evil Baby Mama.
2013
March – April
Just more comments from Grandma about Evil Baby Mama and how she is.
April
In the first text, Grandma Dawn says “she lies so much she believes herself”. This is true. Evil Baby Mama is constantly lying. Some of the shit that Evil Baby Mama comes up with is just un-fucking-believable. She has to truly believe herself to try and sling her shit.
2015
January
This text here is when Grandma Dawn mentioned Evil Baby Mama not letting me take my daughters for one of their birthday’s after Evil Baby Mama said that I could. This happened in 2014. I sent a complaint to the court about it but they did nothing.
Also, Grandma mentions when Evil Baby Mama wouldn’t let me take my girls to their daddy/daughter dances.
This is true. There was probably around 3 or 4 dances that Evil Baby Mama would not let me take my daughters to. Evil Baby Mama let her husband at the time do it. Evil Baby Mama was trying to replace me.
I have a picture in the post To My Girls of my girls at one of their dances. It’s not specifically a daddy/daughter dance but I still am not the one in the picture with them.
Grandma didn’t lie. Evil Baby Mama did.
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January
In these texts Grandma is describing how Evil Baby Mama is. Evil Baby Mama is simply not a good person. Even Evil Baby Mama’s own Mama thinks she is a rotten monster.
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March
More descriptions of Evil Baby Mama. Even Grandma seen how much trouble Evil Baby Mama caused for me.
March - April
Just some more “casual” text with Grandma.
April
Grandma comments on how Evil Baby Mama constantly wants everyone to think I am a dick. How Evil Baby Mama makes me out to be such a monster.
September
In the rest of these Texts Grandma is just basically commenting on how Evil Baby Mama is and how she actually treats me.
Evil Baby Mama makes me out to be the bad guy. I’m not the bad guy. Even Grandma says this in her Text #7. Evil Baby Mama is the bad guy.
In Text #4, Grandma goes on to say that Evil Baby Mama had left me out of so many events with my girls and that Evil Baby Mama created 99% of the problems.
My girls don’t want to believe this. I understand. Evil Baby Mama is their mother. I get it. However, fact still remains that what Grandma said is true. If Grandma didn’t lie about the daddy/daughter dance, why would she lie about this?