August – October
This text just shows that I did help with my girls when I was aware. Evil Baby Mama has claimed that I did not help with my girls.
When covid hit in 2020 my girls went to online classes with their school. They did not have a computer. I made sure that they did. When Evil Baby Mama told me I went out the next day to find them a computer. It ended up taking a couple days to find a couple but they each had a new computer within a couple days. Evil Baby Mama did not offer one penny to help get these computers. I did it alone, on top of my child support.
I did tell Evil Baby Mama that I would take care of it but I knew that she wouldn’t contribute anything anyway and I didn’t want to argue with her about it. I just made sure my girls had what they needed.
October
In this text Evil Baby Mama asked me for help in finding online schools. I wasn’t sure what to look for? I started with the school in my town, the one I attended, only about five miles away from Evil Baby Mama.
I told Evil Baby Mama my progress and all she could do was bitch. That instantly set me off. I really just cannot speak to this rotten woman. It makes my stomach turn.
November – December
In the first text, aside from all the other bullshit, Evil Baby Mama calls me a “fucking retard”. Yea, I don’t give a fuck what she calls me. My point is, Evil Baby Mama calls me names while crying “verbal abuse” from me. A two-faced, evil bitch.
December
This text here Evil Baby Mama is arguing with me about parent’s birthdays. Per the court, parent’s birthdays are recognized holidays. This text is in December a few days before my birthday which is December 9th, then on my birthday. I am trying to make arrangements ahead of time to get my girls for my birthday.
Of course, Evil Baby Mama wants to argue with me about it and try and tell me that parent’s birthdays are not holidays. Evil Baby Mama knows this is not true. Evil Baby Mama is just trying to keep my girls from me.
I did end up getting them on my birthday and wanted to keep them for the night. Evil Baby Mama even told them that they could stay the night then said no. Kind of like the time in 2014 when Evil Baby Mama said that I could take our girls for their birthday. My girls got into my truck ready to go then Evil Baby Mama made them get out and wouldn’t let me take them, even though they were crying about it.
Even Evil Baby Mama’s Mama was pissed about that. Grandma even says so in her texts.
This shit is why I’m an asshole to Evil Baby Mama. This is why I am “mean” to her. This is why we fight. Evil Baby Mama can’t seem to comprehend this. Then Evil Baby Mama twists it into my fault and convinces our girls, and anyone else, that I’m the bad guy.
There was no reason that I couldn’t have my girls on my birthday. My birthday this year was on a Wednesday. Not my “parenting time” and my birthday “holiday” technically ended at 8pm. But I could have got my girls up and to school or anywhere else the next day just as easily as Evil Baby Mama could. I only lived about five miles from my girls’ school.
I couldn’t keep them for the night because Evil Baby Mama kept my girls from me as much as she could. Look at the texts. I wouldn’t have even got them for my birthday if it weren’t court ordered. But Evil Baby Mama convinces our girls that she doesn’t do that.
By this time, me and Evil Baby Mama had been doing this custody shit for 18 years and for 18 years the parent’s birthday had always been a holiday. Evil Baby Mama knows this. It’s in the written Holiday And Spring Schedule And Guidelines ordered by the court.
And the really stupid thing here that shows just how ignorant Evil Baby Mama is, the dumb bitch is literally looking at the fucking guidelines which clearly states that my birthday is a holiday and even sending me a fucking picture and still continuing to claim that my birthday was not a holiday. Fucking seriously?? And this dumb bitch wonders why I fight with her?
These documents are the “Yellow” version of the Holiday And Spring Schedule And Guidelines ordered by the court. Shown in the pics of both documents. There is a “White” version as well. Evil Baby Mama and I used the Yellow version. I got my copy of the Yellow version when this custody bullshit started twenty years ago. So did Evil Baby Mama. These guidelines clearly state that Mother’s & Father’s Day and Birthdays are recognized as children’s holidays.
Although Evil Baby Mama has a copy of these guidelines, just as I do, and have been following those same guidelines for 18 years at this point, Evil Baby Mama wants to try and tell me my birthday was not a holiday. Evil Baby Mama knew my birthday was a holiday. Evil Baby Mama just wanted to keep my girls from me.
Even if my birthday was not a holiday, so fucking what! Why should I not have my own kids on my birthday? Why is that an issue? It was only an issue for Evil Baby Mama because she kept my girls from me and forced me to fight for them. Then Evil Baby Mama brainwashed our girls into believing that she did not keep them from me and make me fight for them. Look at the texts! That’s exactly what Evil Baby Mama did!
Girls, your mother lied to you!
December – January 2021
In the second text, our youngest birthday is soon and it was my turn with them that year and I got both of my girls. Evil Baby Mama argued with me about that trying to NOT let me take them. Until, Evil Baby Mama pulled her foot out of her mouth and realized that I was right.
But of course, even though I was right and Evil Baby Mama was wrong, Evil Baby Mama still twisted it into me being the bad guy. I was somehow trying to “blackmail” her. I shit you not, folks! This is the kind of shit that spews out of this bitch’s pie hole.