This year’s folder has some girth also.
This year wasn’t a good year either. Evil Baby Mama really stuck it to me again. Evil Baby Mama was able to get my parenting time suspended. What happened and my response to the court is below.
This is what had happened…
I have a dog. A girl. I had got her when she was about six weeks old. I got her from one of my daughter’s friends for my daughter. Both of my girls named her Pickles.
This is the first time I have ever had a dog. I never even had one as a kid. I had no clue what I was in for. I had no idea of the patience that I would need that I didn’t have. I was not prepared for the antics of a little puppy. I got this dog for my daughter and me so that we could have a little something more together and raise and take care of the dog together.
Over the 4th of July weekend of 2023 I had my youngest daughter. My oldest was already 18 so she was not coming over anymore. It was morning. I had just woken up. I went out into the living room and seen that my dog had chewed my roller blades. She had chewed the upper strap enough that they could not be used anymore. Not only did I pay about $150 for them, rollerblading was one of the last things that I had with my daughter that we did together. I was pissed. I went after my dog and it was not good.
This really wasn’t even about the rollerblades. If it would have been just about the rollerblades I would not have gotten so pissed. Yea, I would not have been very happy about it but I would not have went after my dog like I did.
It was more about my daughter. Evil Baby Mama has taken so much of my girls from me over the years that I tried to hang on to every little thing I had of them. Even the littlest thing, something they may seem pointless or silly to someone else just might mean the world to me because that was all I had.
Rollerblading with my daughter was one of those things. One of the last very few things I had with my daughter that meant the world to me. When I seen that I couldn’t do it any more I felt like my world instantly crumbled.
I did over react for sure. In the moment all that I could see was losing more of my daughter. In the moment I did not realize that I could have gotten them fixed, which I did.
If you were to ask my daughter she would probably say that I beat the shit out of our dog. Rightfully so. That’s just about what it sounded like. Did I “abuse” our dog? Well, I mean, if you want to get “technical”, I guess you could probably say yes?
I went after our dog. I hit her a couple times with the rollerblades and poked her with them while telling her to eat them. It did sound like I was fucking her up. She was yelping quite a bit. I really didn’t seriously hurt her though. I’m sure getting poked with the rollerblades didn’t feel good but she was yelping more from being scared than from being hurt. Still doesn’t make it ok though.
This shouldn’t have happened. I was having a bad few days and made a bad choice. I still feel really shitty for it. I do severely regret it. Since that day it has never happened again. Since then I have done everything I can do to make it up to my dog. I take very good care of her. She is not an abused dog in any way, shape or form. I take very good care of her. She is very spoiled. She is healthy and very happy. She has forgiven me. She even has a pet cat now to play with. I had mice. I live outside of town so she has a lot of freedom. She is never on a chain unless its summer and I leave her outside to go to work. She has escaped her chain before. Ran free. Could have left and went anywhere. She always comes home.
This year, after my parenting time was suspended, the court, the stupid Court Referee, Jamie Raymond, ordered that me and my daughter have “video parenting time”. This didn’t go so well. I talk about this more down the page in the FOC Ex Parte Resolution Conference Summery.
The Referee also ordered that me and my daughter have counseling. This didn’t go well either. We were going but nothing was getting accomplished. It wasn’t working. At one point the counselor cancelled our appointments because nothing was getting accomplished.
I tried to find another counselor but Evil Baby Mama was not very cooperative. I talk more about that in her 2024 Texts. These show how Evil Baby Mama lies and how she tries to manipulate everything. You gotta know how to “read between the lines” also.
Custody
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Motion And Order To Show Cause For Contempt (Custody/Parenting Time) – January 17, 2023
This is Evil Baby Mama’s Third (3) Show Cause For Contempt.
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Order After Hearing On Alleged Custody/Parenting Time Violation – February 6, 2023
Evil Baby Mama is in Contempt. Again, this is the Third (3) time.
Letter From Caseworker – April 21, 2023
This is a response from our caseworker about my make-up parenting time that I got for Evil Baby Mama denying me parenting time.
Apparently I was very late in requesting this make-up time? I really don’t know why it took me so long to send in my request. Most days I don’t know if I coming or going because of all this bullshit.
And really, why should it even matter? If I don’t get my kid at a specific date and time I forfeit seeing them? That’s fucking insane! I should be able to see my own kids whenever the fuck I want.
Letter From Caseworker – June 9, 2023
This is another letter from our case worker to both me and Evil Baby Mama. Notice what is said, “kindly take note the parties are reminded that the children have the inherent right to the natural love and affection of both parents, neither parent shall do anything to estrange the children from the other parent or tend to discredit, cause disrespect to, or dimimish the quality of the relationship with the other parent. If either party has purposely or inadvertently said hurtful things about the other in front of the children, please refrain from doing do”.
“neither parent shall do anything to estrange the children from the other parent or tend to discredit, cause disrespect to, or diminish the quality of the relationship with the other parent”. This is exactly what Evil Baby Mama fucking did.
Evil Baby Mama took both of our girls into court to use them against me. That’s not discrediting me? That’s not disrespecting me? That’s not diminishing the quality of my relationship with my girls? Of course it is! It’s all that and more!
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Verified Ex-Parte Motion To Temporarily Suspend Parenting Time – July 17, 2023
This time Evil Baby Mama got my parenting time suspended. This got made into something that it wasn’t. Of course, so Evil Baby Mama has a “legal” excuse to take my daughter from me.
I already talked about my dog up top. I’ll address this shit. The evening in question I was in a bad mood again. Having another bad day. I have a lot of bad days because of the constant fighting for my girls. I was trying to talk to my daughter about stuff, everything going on. It didn’t go so well. Sometimes, I can write fairly decent but my social skills suck.
Page #2, paragraph 11. I did say something to that effect. I was trying to give some sort of reasoning behind what happened with our dog. Not an excuse but a reason. Yes, because of depression, because of being angry all the time, because of being upset all the time because of fighting for my girls for 20 years sometimes I do something or say something without thinking about it. Most of us have probably been there. Yes, what I did was a bit extreme, still, hurt and not thinking about what I was doing, not really controlling myself to well. This is what I was trying to say to her.
Paragraph #13. This one is a complete lie. Evil Baby Mama lied about this one. It was determined in court that it didn’t happen but Evil Baby Mama still got away with lying because before the judge became a judge the judge was Evil Baby Mama’s attorney for the same case so the judge protected Evil Baby Mama.
My gun was an issue in all this bullshit and I really don’t understand why? Here’s the thing. I have a Michigan Concealed Pistol License (CPL), a license to carry. I’ve had it since 2020. I have 9mm that I do carry sometimes. Both of my girls were aware of this. They both knew that I had a license to carry a gun and also knew that I had a gun (pistol). I also have hunting rifles. My girls were also aware of this as I have taken them out shooting and they shot my rifles. Mostly the .22. I have had guns around my girls their entire lives. I have never locked them up. I didn’t need to. I raised my girls to not touch them.
My 9mm that I carried, was in and out between my house and vehicle all the time. If I was leaving home it was in my truck in between my seat and center counsel. If I was at home it was either on my kitchen table or on my nightstand at bedtime. This was this way when I had my girls also. I didn’t stop carrying my gun because I had my girls with me.
So, this night in question my gun was out. It was sitting on the kitchen table like it normally does. My gun sitting on my kitchen table right out in the open is nothing out of the ordinary. It is typically in a case and always on safety. This night, I took it out of its case because I was going to clean it. So, at some point my gun was sitting on my kitchen table out of its case. I really didn’t think anything of it as my gun being on the kitchen table is normal. Now, if I usually kept my gun put away then I all of a sudden got it out for no apparent reason then I might be able to understand questioning it a bit. But it wasn’t like that. Everything I did with my gun was normal activity. When I was talking with my daughter we were sitting at my kitchen table and my gun was sitting right in front of me, where it normally is. While I was talking to my daughter, I did not touch my gun. I did not even look at my gun. I didn’t say anything about my gun. I made no reference to my gun in any way shape or form. So, I am clueless as to how it even became an issue?
For some reason my daughter mentioned my gun to her mother? Then Evil Baby Mama used that as some “ammo” to take my daughter from me, legally.
Paragraphs #22, #23 and #24 is more bullshit. This is Evil Baby Mama trying to make me into some kind of “monster” so she can take my daughter from me. Evil Baby Mama has been doing this shit my girls’ entire lives. Making me the bad guy. Grooming our girls to hate me.
For twenty years Evil Baby Mama has been accusing me of physical and mental abuse and she has convinced our girls of that. Evil Baby Mama has lied to our girls and convinced them that I’m the bad guy. Paragraph #22, Evil Baby Mama fears that I may put our daughter in harm again. Our daughter was not in any harm to begin with. Yea, what happened with our dog was not good. I was very pissed. I can understand my daughter being a little shaken by it. But I have never hurt her or have even tried their entire life. I never even spanked my girls when they were younger. I refused to do that. Evil Baby Mama did spank them though. My girls told me that themselves when they were younger. Now, that’s neither here nor there. I’m just saying.
Paragraph #23. Again, not a good thing that happened but my daughter was in no danger.
Paragraph #24. Is bullshit. I did not threaten suicide. I possessed a firearm because I legally own one and have a license to carry it. There was no bad behavior towards my daughter. My daughter of course seen and heard what was going on with our dog but no bad behavior was directed towards her, just the dog, which it shouldn’t have.
Yes, what happened with my dog should not have happened. I deeply regret it. I fucked up. I made a big mistake. It has never happened again.
Ex-Parte Order Regarding Minor Child – Suspension of Parenting Time – July 21, 2023
Yep. This is what the bitch did to me. She took my daughter away from me. This is what Evil Baby Mama has wanted to do their whole life. Well, Evil Baby Mama used my girls to beat me up enough that it brought out the worst in me and Evil Baby Mama used that to her advantage.
All this bullshit is Evil Baby Mama convincing everyone, including our girls that I am abusive and that they should be scared of me. Evil Baby Mama claims that I was physically and verbally abusive to her. Me, verbally abusive? I sure the hell was and still am. It’s nothing different than how Evil Baby Mama is with me, except Evil Baby Mama is worse because she does shit like this. Just look at this website and see how “abusive” Evil Baby Mama is.
Evil Baby Mama has been mentally and emotionally abusing me since the day our girls were born. Evil Baby Mama did this by keeping my girls from me. Evil Baby Mama did this by keeping me shut out of their lives. Evil Baby Mama did this by forcing me to fight for my own kids. Evil Baby Mama is an abusive nut case.
Physically abusive? Nope. Didn’t happen. I have never hit, smacked, punched, kicked or anything Evil Baby Mama. I have never even tried. Evil Baby Mama claims that I have hit her but that is a lie. Evil Baby Mama claims that I have physically gone after her at child exchange. That also is a lie.
I am not an abusive person. Sure, the ordeal with the dog doesn’t exactly look good, I get that. But it was more a fluke thing, just not so lucky I guess? It’s nothing that happened on a regular basis. That was the first time, and last. I still get on my dog at times for shit. Most of us do that have a dog. I just yell at my dog now if I need to but don’t need to much. I don’t ever hit her. She’s a really good dog.
Evil Baby Mama has been lying and painting me an abusive person my girls’ entire lives. My girls believe her. My girls have seen me ornery, upset, angry and just flat out pissed off. They have seen me throw things when I get pissed off. I have never thrown anything at them or ever tried. Because my girls have seen my bad days like this they want to believe that I am just an abusive monster everyday because that is what Evil Baby Mama has been convincing them to believe. That is Evil Baby Mama grooming my girls to hate me.
Pickles - 2023
This is my dog, Pickles, about three days after the incident. She almost looks like she is smiling. She is obviously not an abused dog. I had a bad day and made a bad choice. Pickles is a healthy and happy dog. She no longer has that cage either.
Letter from Psychologist (counselor) – August 10, 2023
My counselor basically said that me fighting for my girls is my problem and that I am no danger to them.
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FOC Ex Parte Resolution Conference Summery – August 20, 2023
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Objection To Ex-Parte Order And Motion To Rescind Or Modify – August 21, 2023
This is my objection to the parenting time suspension. It’s 16 fucking pages long. I tried to tell and explain to these fucking clowns what the fucking problems are and what actually happened but they wouldn’t listen to me. They really don’t ever listen to me.
The court always listened to Evil Baby Mama even if she didn’t have proof of anything. Evil Baby Mama always lied and the court always seemed to believe her bullshit. Probably because she’s a woman. She’s a woman so she must be telling the truth about being abused. There is no way a man could be abused.
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FOC Ex Parte Resolution Conference Summery – August 23, 2023
For this “Conference” we went in front of the court referee, Jamie J. Raymond. She’s an ignorant cunt also.
The referee ordered that my daughter and I have “video parenting time”. This didn’t go so well. These calls were supposed to happen at 7pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays over Zoom. Sometimes they didn’t. I usually waited for my daughter to send the invite to join. I did this because the Judge had said that were supposed to “use the child’s Zoom account for this parenting time”. I thought that was how Evil Baby Mama wanted it? It was a control thing. In hindsight, I see that I may have misunderstood it? It simply meant that my daughter wasn’t using Evil Baby Mama’s account. I wasn’t thinking, like usual. This shit got me fucked up. I did send the invite sometimes though.
My daughter usually always sent the invite but I didn’t always get it. That was not my daughter’s fault or mine. There were many times that my daughter had sent out her invite at 7pm but I didn’t actually get it until two or three hours later. My guess is that the email server or something to that effect was the problem. I tried telling that to both of them. Evil Baby Mama couldn’t grasp that concept and she manipulated my daughter to do the same.
I’ve sent invites to her also but sometimes she didn’t answer. I didn’t blame her for that. I blamed our email.
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Here are some screenshots of our invites in no particular order.
There are two from my daughter. One I received at 9:49pm, two hours after scheduled Zoom “parenting time”. And another at 3:00am, 8 hours after scheduled Zoom parenting time.
A lot of invites I just did not get on time to be able to respond. The Zoom meeting connection absolutely had to be between 7:00 pm and 7:30 pm. Evil Baby Mama would not let a different time happen. That is Evil Baby Mama keeping my girls from me under the “guise” of “following the court order”. If Evil Baby Mama truly wanted me and my daughter to work things out she wouldn’t have cared what time me and my daughter talked.
Then even trying to talk to my daughter was difficult. Evil Baby Mama sometimes was close by coaching her. I’ve seen Evil Baby Mama on screen and have heard her. Every once in a while when I would ask my daughter a question she would look up as if Evil Baby Mama was standing right there waiting to answer for her. Evil Baby Mama’s interference did make the Zoom calls more difficult. Sometimes Evil Baby Mama wasn’t around.
When Evil Baby Mama wasn’t around and was able to talk to my daughter more. I did try but she just flat out did not want to talk to me. My daughter was only doing the Zoom calls because she had to. The calls usually didn’t last very long. Most of them probably not even five minutes. As soon as she turned 18 the Zoom calls stopped.
I did go for a brief period where I was not answering my daughter’s invites or sending my own. I went probably a couple months without answering Zoom. Why? I’m not sure?
With Evil Baby Mama interfering and my daughter just flat out not wanting to talk to me made things very difficult for me. I don’t usually try and force someone to talk to me that doesn’t. This just fucked with my head even more on top of everything else.
Now, that stupid bitch, Jamie Raymond ordered these video calls this time in 2023 but I asked for calls to be ordered back in 2011 and was told no because they could be enforced. This is true.
The letters from my case worker about it is in year posts 2011 and 2013. I tried twice years ago to get phone calls ordered because Evil Baby Mama would never let me have any sort of communication with my girls outside of my court ordered weekends. I was told no because it couldn’t be enforced. But all of a sudden it can be enforced now? If these stupid mother fuckers would have done their jobs years ago and ordered calls that would have eliminated half the problems.
At one point my girls eventually did get their own phones. I could have called them then but I didn’t. I didn’t because by that time a phone relationship just was not built because Evil Baby Mama wouldn’t let it happen. By then pretty much no relationship was being built because of Evil Baby Mama. By then I was starting to get so depressed angry and upset all the time, because of Evil Baby Mama that it was difficult for me to talk to anyone. I was starting to shut down. My head was getting so fucked up from this bullshit that I started pushing everyone away. Plus, where I lived, my phone signal usually sucked and mostly could not make calls from home anyway.
I’m sounding like I have just a bunch of excuses. Maybe they are? I don’t know? This is what all this bullshit has done to me. It has fucked with my head really bad. I just wanted to be Dad.
Notice To Appear – September 12, 2023
Just a notice for me to appear in court.
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Court transcript of Defendants Objection To Referee’s Recommended Order Before The Honorable Marcy A. Klaus, Family Court Judge – September 12, 2022
This is a transcript for my hearing on Monday, September 12, 2022.
Letter From Caseworker – October 27, 2023
Complaint on Evil Baby Mama.
Evil Baby Mama was interfering and disrupting my counseling session with my daughter.
Evil Baby Mama simply did not want counseling to happen with me and my daughter because Evil Baby Mama wants my girls to hate me and Evil Baby Mama convinced them to. Evil Baby Mama interfered and gave me a hard time about getting a counselor. During one session with my daughter, in the middle of the session, Evil Baby Mama came pounding on the door, literal pounding, we all just about jumped out of our seats the pounding was so loud. Evil Baby Mama swung the door open, stormed into the room like she owned the fucking place and started bitching. I really don’t remember what she started bitching about? As soon as that rotten cunt stormed into the room, I instantly saw red. I had to leave.
Evil Baby Mama made getting counseling extremely difficult because Evil baby Mama didn’t want counseling to happen.
Another whacked thing? Evil Baby Mama was seeing a counselor herself. I don’t know what the fuck for? Evil Baby Mama walks into her counselor acting like a fucking victim when she the one causing all the problems. Don’t make me fight for my kids and there wouldn’t be problems. Why is that so difficult to understand?
-Well, Evil Baby Mama, show this website to your fucking counselor!
Then she can tell you how much of a victim you ARE NOT but how much of a lying, manipulative bitch you are!
Support
A quiet year for support. Nothing to show.