When this custody bullshit started in 2005 I was given “reasonable parenting time”. This time consisted of every other holiday, six weeks of summer and every other weekend, only 4 days a month for the “regular” schedule. This time that I got approximated to about 93 days a year. This left Evil Baby Mama with approximately 272 days.
I’m sure the issue can be easily seen right away?
93 fucking days a year! That was it! I begged and pleaded for more time with my girls but Evil Baby Mama and the Court always told me no.
This constant fighting for my girls has beaten the shit out of me. Most days I don’t know if I am coming or going. I just kind of live on auto pilot. There have been so many nights over the years that I have had to literally cry myself to sleep because I missed my girls so much. I couldn’t see them. I couldn’t talk to them. I couldn’t do anything for no reason other than an evil, spiteful, vindictive Mother. Many people can’t even fathom how much damage just this alone causes.
On top of that I had to fight multiple lies Evil Baby Mama told about me. Lies designed to keep me from my girls and destroy any kind of relationship I could have had with them. All of this had pushed me into such a deep hole of depression that I couldn’t climb out of it. The more I had to fight for my girls the deeper that hole got. It has fucked with my head really bad. A lot of times I can’t even think straight.
This has caused me to pretty much push everyone away and left me alone. I get angry and upset a lot. Many times I get triggered by the stupidest things. I never used to be this way. Fighting for my girls beat the fuck out of me and made me this way.
Evil Baby Mama has wanted to erase me from my girl’s lives their entire lives. If it was not for the court ordered 93 days that I did get I have no doubt that I would have never seen my girls at all. If it would have been up to Evil Baby Mama my girls would not even know who I am.
Evil Baby Mama brainwashed our girls to turn them against me. Evil Baby Mama lied to our girls, manipulated them and groomed them to hate me.
I’m not lying about any of this. I’m not making anything up. I brought the receipts.
I have a 2010 Text from Evil Baby Mama where she is accusing me of having other kids that I walked out on and that I was lying to our girls about it. Evil Baby Mama even admits that she told our girls that I was lying. Evil Baby Mama lied. Still, to this day, I do not have other kids. This is Evil Baby Mama grooming our girls to hate me. That’s exactly what it is. Our girls were only 4 and 5 years old at this time.
Evil Baby Mama told our girls that I didn’t see them more because I didn’t ask. I wasn’t asking because I stopped asking because I was always told no. Evil Baby Mama did tell our girls this. I have a text from one of my daughters in the To My Girls post. My daughter didn’t specifically tell me that her Mother told her this but it doesn’t take a genius to read between the lines. Evil Baby Mama is the only way our daughter would know if I asked or not.
Evil Baby Mama lied to our girls. Evil Baby Mama didn’t tell our girls about scores and scores of times that I did ask and Evil Baby Mama told me no. I have a 2014 Text from Evil Baby Mama where I had asked Evil Baby Mama multiple times if I could have our girls some more. I tried for a day, an overnight, just a few hours, for any time during a week. Evil Baby Mama constantly told me no always with some stupid excuse. This wasn’t just a onetime thing where I asked once and never again. I asked all the time, a lot. Evil Baby Mama didn’t tell our girls this part. Evil Baby Mama only showed our girls bits and pieces. Evil Baby Mama showed our girls only the parts that she could twist into me being the bad guy. This is Evil Baby Mama lying to our girls, manipulating and grooming them to hate me.
This entire website is about how my girls were kept from me and how much I had to fight for them. Lies that were told about me. If all of this were not true I would not have a Case File almost a foot thick and this website would not exist.
Right now, my girls will not talk to me. It’s been about two years since I’ve talked to either one of them. This is inadvertently my fault, but ultimately, it’s Evil Baby Mama’s fault.
There was a couple times that I had gotten upset, not sure why? I’m that way a lot because of all the fighting, because of my girls being kept from me. I had my girls and ended up taking them back to their Mother’s early. I took them to their Mothers and when they got out of my truck I told them to find a Dad that was good enough for them. Yea, I know. I’ve beat myself up enough for it. I talk about this in the Year 2021 post.
My oldest daughter had claimed that I treated her bad. Other than what I had said to them, which I severely regret, I have always treated my girls very good. Check out the Video my oldest daughter made for me when she was about 10 years old. Does that really look like I treated my girls bad?
I can count on one hand how many times I have actually gotten after my girls for anything and would have fingers left over. I spoiled them. I was always buying them something. Evil Baby Mama called this “suck up gifts” and that I was just trying to “buy” them. I couldn’t even get them something without being the bad guy. I could have done absolutely everything 100% right and I still would have been wrong. I still would have been the bad guy no matter what. I spoiled my girls because I love them and liked spending money on them. It wasn’t to “suck up” or “buy” them.
Me saying what I said to my girls was the worst thing that happened with my oldest. Over time, that probably could have been repaired, if Evil Baby Mama would have put water on that fire instead of fuel. But, if it was not for Evil Baby Mama’s bullshit and her turning my girls into weapons to beat the shit out of me and hurt me that never would have happened to begin with.
Instead, Evil Baby Mama used this to turn my daughter against me. Evil Baby Mama had taken my daughter into court and actually put her on the stand to use against me. Evil Baby Mama’s attorney asked my daughter a bunch of questions specifically designed to knock me down. I could have also asked my daughter questions and could have tried turning her against her Mother. I didn’t. I refused to. I didn’t care if it benefitted me or not, my daughter did not belong in court to use against me or her Mother. My daughter says that she hates me. The ultimate reason why she does is because Evil Baby Mama wants her to but my girls have been too brainwashed and manipulated to realize that.
This court ordeal shows an example of how much Evil Baby Mama tries to manipulate everything. I have some 2022 Texts from Evil Baby Mama. One Text from December where Evil Baby Mama is telling me that I am a “selfish, self righteous prick that would rather put his kids through court”.
But…
I also have a Text from July 2022 of Evil Baby Mama telling me that I need to take my daughter to the courthouse with me. I refused to do it. It was a day during my summer time that I had my girls and a court hearing. Evil Baby Mama said that our daughter had to go because she was a “witness”. For what? A witness against me. Because that’s what Evil Baby Mama manipulated my daughter into doing. So Evil Baby Mama could turn her against me.
There was one time that I had my girls. Me and my oldest were having a disagreement that wasn’t going very good. I wasn’t abusive to her or anything like that we just were not seeing eye to eye about something. I really don’t remember what it was about? At one point she had to go to work. She worked in a fast food restaurant at this time. She got another ride there. Later on when she was close to getting done with work, I went to her work so that I could pick her up and she was mad at me so she called the cops on me, while I was at her work, no doubt encouraged by Evil Baby Mama. The cop came and threatened me with a trespassing charge if I didn’t leave. Evil Baby Mama is one of those “cop callers”. Now she convinces my girls to do the same when it’s not even needed.
Things were a little worse with my youngest daughter. I’m not going to get into details here as I talk about it in Year 2023 post. Some stuff happened with our dog. I got after our dog for chewing things and it wasn’t good. My daughter ended up calling the cops on me, courtesy of Evil Baby Mama’s encouragement no doubt because that’s what Evil Baby Mama likes to do.
Evil Baby Mama also manipulated our youngest daughter into turning against me. Evil Baby Mama also took her into court to use against me. Again, I could have asked her questions also but I didn’t. Like my oldest, If my younger daughter would have been with me that day she would not have gone to court.
But yet I’m the “selfish, self righteous prick that would rather put his kids through court”?
This fucking bitch is a manipulating, two-faced, narcissistic fucking nUt job!
By manipulating our daughter and turning her against me, Evil Baby Mama was able to take her into court as a “witness” against me and was able to take my parenting time away from me. I had one more year left of court ordered parenting time left with my daughter. Evil Baby Mama took that from me.
Evil Baby Mama took both of my daughters from me.
Over the years, Evil Baby Mama had constantly claimed that I was “verbally abusive” to her and have “physically attacked” her, hit her. Evil Baby Mama started lying about this all the way back in 2007 when she had a Personal Protection Order placed on me.
Was I verbally abusive to Evil Baby Mama? I sure the fuck was! The bitch kept my girls from me and forced me to fight for them. What am I supposed to do? Send her flowers and say thank you?
Did I ever hit Evil Baby Mama or even try? Nope. Never. Not even once. Evil Baby Mama is full of shit. Evil Baby Mama claimed that I hit her all the way back in 2003. That is talked about in the Personal Protection Order post. Then, of course, through the years, Evil Baby Mama has claimed that I have tried to physically assault her at child exchanges. That has never happened. Evil Baby Mama is still full of shit.
Did you notice the part where Evil Baby Mama called me a “selfish, self righteous prick”?
This isn’t the only time she has called me names like that.
I really don’t give a fuck what Evil Baby Mama calls me, my point is, that’s the “verbal abuse” that Evil Baby Mama accuses me of. Evil Baby Mama lies and talks out both sides of her mouth.
For years Evil Baby Mama has claimed that “physical” and “verbal” abuse. Evil Baby Mama always claimed that she was “scared” of me. That dumb bitch ain’t no more scared of me than she is a fucking butterfly.
Evil Baby Mama claims that I am the one lying all the time. Evil Baby Mama tells our girls that I am lying and that I lie to them. I DO NOT lie to my girls. I have NEVER lied to my girls. I haven’t made anything up. I’ve been saying this same exact thing about Evil Baby Mama for twenty years. Evil Baby Mama kept my girls from me. Evil Baby Mama kept me shut out of their lives. Evil Baby Mama forced me to fight for them.
This is it. This is what I have been saying for twenty years. My story has never changed. However, with Evil Baby Mama, every time I’d turn around and the sun came up Evil Baby Mama had something new to accuse me of.
For the last twenty years Evil Baby Mama has been telling the court, the police, anyone that will listen to her bullshit, that I am abusive, violent. Like some sort of “monster”. The bad guy. This is not true. I am angry and pissed off a lot, because the fucking bitch made me fight for my own kids. I have told Evil Baby Mama this multiple times. She didn’t give a shit. It was still my fault. I was still the bad guy.
Evil Baby Mama has convinced our girls that I am that monster, that bad guy. My girls have seen me angry and upset. My girls probably tell Evil Baby Mama this then Evil Baby Mama twists it into being my fault and that I am the bad guy for the fighting. That the fighting is my fault. When, in reality, the fighting would have never had happened to begin with if Evil Baby Mama would not have kept my girls from me and forced me to fight for them. That is why I am angry and upset all the time. That’s not my fault. Evil Baby Mama did that.
Evil Baby Mama had convinced our girls that they should be scared of me. Because, ya know, Evil Baby Mama supposedly is?
Evil Baby Mama lied to and brainwashed our girls. Evil Baby Mama manipulated them and groomed them to hate me. That’s why there are problems. Evil Baby Mama was able to do this because Evil Baby Mama had more of an influence on our girls. Evil Baby Mama had more of an influence on our girls because Evil Baby Mama had more time with our girls. This is one reason that I could not get more time with my girls. If I would have had equal time as I asked for, Evil Baby Mama would have lost her power and control. If I would have had equal time with my girls Evil Baby Mama would not have been able to brainwash them.